At four months most babies coo back when you talk, chuckle when you play, hold a toy you put in their hand and push up on their forearms during tummy time. Here is what most babies do by 4 months, four easy ways to play this week, and what to check on the labels that touch your baby now.
What most babies do by 4 months
From CDC's 2022 checklists: things at least 3 in 4 babies do by this age. A guide for a chat with your pediatrician, not a test.
Chuckles (not yet a full laugh) when you try to make them laugh
Looks at you, moves or makes sounds to get or keep your attention
Talking and listening
Makes cooing sounds like “oooo” and “aahh”
Makes sounds back when you talk
Turns the head towards the sound of your voice
Thinking and exploring
Opens the mouth when hungry and sees the breast or bottle
Looks at their own hands with interest
Moving
Holds the head steady without support when you hold them
Holds a toy when you put it in their hand
Swings an arm at toys
Brings the hands to the mouth
Pushes up onto the elbows and forearms on the tummy
Every baby has their own timing
WHO followed 816 healthy babies in five countries, India among them, and timed six movement milestones. Each bar is the window in which 98 of every 100 of them got there.
Sits without support4–9 mo
Stands with help5–11 mo
Crawls on hands and knees5–14 mo
Walks with help6–14 mo
Stands alone7–17 mo
Walks alone8–18 mo
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Your baby: 4 months
None of these has started for most babies yet, and that is the point of the picture: sitting, crawling and walking each come in their own wide window, months from now.
Play together this week
Five or ten minutes each, with things already in your home. Do them in any language you speak at home.
1
Coo conversations
5 min · nothing to buy
You need: Nothing — bath time or a nappy change is perfect
Say “oooo” slowly, with a big round mouth, and wait.
When your baby coos, say it back, a little louder, like a reply.
Then try a new one — “aaah”, “ba” — and give them time to answer.
Coos back
Makes sounds to keep your attention
2
Swing and swipe
5 min · nothing to buy
You need: A soft cloth ball, or a sock knotted into a ball
Lay your baby on the back and hold the ball above their chest, within arm's reach.
Let it touch a hand. Most babies swing at it — cheer every hit.
Put it in their hand and let them bring it to the mouth.
Stay close. Something too big to swallow, with nothing that can come loose — no buttons, no bells.
Swings at toys
Holds a toy
Brings hands to the mouth
3
Where's that voice?
5 min · nothing to buy
You need: Two people, or you and the doorway
While your baby lies on the back, call their name softly from one side.
When they turn, smile and come closer. Then try from the other side.
Grandparents love this one — every voice is a new game.
Turns towards your voice
4
Mirror tummy time
3–5 min · nothing to buy
You need: A cotton sheet on the floor and the almirah mirror, or your face at floor level
Lay your baby on the tummy facing the mirror, or lie down facing them.
Their own face, or yours, is the reason to push up and look.
Stop before they get upset — a few short goes a day add up.
Stay close. On the floor, awake, with you right there. A wall or almirah mirror, nothing that can tip over.
Pushes up onto the forearms
Holds the head steady
What touches your baby now
It is still breast milk or formula alone until 6 months, WHO advises. Outdoors and in the evening, other labels start to matter — check sunscreen, mosquito repellent and everything that goes on the skin:
Sunscreen: under 6 months, shade and clothing come first, and Pikabee flags sunscreen at this age.Oxybenzone (benzophenone-3)
Mosquito repellent: DEET needs your pediatrician's word at this age; oil of lemon eucalyptus is not for under 3.DEETOil of lemon eucalyptus (PMD)
Scan a label
Free. No sign-up. Pick 0–6 months on the result to check it for this age.
Talk with your pediatrician before starting any food other than breast milk or formula — WHO's advice is to wait until about 6 months.
If something worries you
You know your baby best. If your baby is not doing some of these things yet, or has stopped doing something they used to do, tell your pediatrician — at the next visit, or sooner. CDC's advice is not to wait: acting early is what helps most.
Born early? For the first two years, pediatricians usually count from the due date — the corrected age.
In India, your pediatrician can also refer you to the District Early Intervention Centre (DEIC) at your district hospital, part of the government's Rashtriya Bal Swasthya Karyakram.
Questions CDC suggests taking to the visit:
What do you and your baby enjoy doing together?
What does your baby like to do?
Is there anything your baby does, or does not do, that worries you?
Has your baby stopped doing anything they used to do?
Was your baby born early, or do they have any special health needs?